Mum and Dad ,I don’t want to grow up anymore, please don’t get old

One day, you will be startled to realize that you have changed too much, spent most of your time at work and forgot about the people you love.

Have you ever come back home after a tiring day, and you see your father’s hair adding a silver strand, the corner of your mother’s eyes adding a wrinkle, and at that time you just want to swoop in your parents’ lap and wish that “I don’t want to grow up anymore?” , parents please don’t get old either”?
Even though we know it’s a utopia, it’s like we force time to stop spinning and let the present stand still. But we’ve probably all had countless times of stubbornly hoping that would happen.
The older we get, the more we realize that life is inherently a black block with many defects, where love, sharing and sincerity are few but there are many deceptions, lies, and mutual jealousy. The older we get, the more we see that life is not always a pure and pure rosy like the fairy tales that we cherished every night as a child. I am more and more aware of one thing that there are few people in this world who love and be kind to me as sincerely and unconditionally as my parents did to me. And the older we get, the more fear we have. But perhaps the fear we all have the most in common is the fear of our parents getting old…
You know, one of the most painful feelings that people have to endure is the feeling when someone dear, someone you love the most leaves you. To me, that is the worst and most tragic thing that anyone in this world has to go through, unless that person has no one to love and respect anyone. Here, I am not talking about love between a man and a woman, but I am talking about a more sacred feeling, which is Friendship. I am very afraid of my parents getting older every day, even though it is an inevitable law of nature. Every day when I see the traces of time left on my father’s forehead, on my mother’s smile, my heart aches more. Thinking of a day when our parents leave, surely none of us are strong enough but indifferent to such a huge loss. For me, parents are the most grateful people in this life and having parents is the most fortunate thing. So, if you still have parents, please be respectful, know that every day seeing your parents smile is a happy thing. Live so that your parents are happy, do everything you can to repay the kindness that your parents have given you. Don’t wait until tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, until graduation or promotion, but do it now, today, as soon as possible and while there is still time.
We all come to a time when we are old enough to wish we were small again, when life is too tiring, we just want to retreat to a corner, away from the hustle and bustle out there. I just want to crawl into my mother’s lap, rest my head on my father’s strong shoulder, want to curl up in a familiar, familiar roof, with my mother’s voice, warm kitchen smoke. This life is inherently too many scratches, so me, you and us, stay strong with the stormy weather outside, but remember to come home late in the afternoon, just be a child in your father’s arms Mother, in order to find innocent cuddles, let the love of parents heal the wounds that we are accidentally brought by the hustle and bustle out there. Because deep inside each person, family and parents are always the safest place.
So right now, while we haven’t grown up yet, and our parents haven’t aged much, let’s cherish the moments with them by our side because this life with parents is already a privilege!

You know, one of the most painful feelings that people have to endure is the feeling when someone dear, someone you love the most leaves you. To me, that is the worst and most tragic thing that anyone in this world has to go through, unless that person has no one to love and respect anyone. Here, I am not talking about love between a man and a woman, but I am talking about a more sacred feeling, which is Friendship. I am very afraid of my parents getting older every day, even though it is an inevitable law of nature. Every day when I see the traces of time left on my father’s forehead, on my mother’s smile, my heart aches more. Thinking of a day when our parents leave, surely none of us are strong enough but indifferent to such a huge loss. For me, parents are the most grateful people in this life and having parents is the most fortunate thing. So, if you still have parents, please be respectful, know that every day seeing your parents smile is a happy thing. Live so that your parents are happy, do everything you can to repay the kindness that your parents have given you. Don’t wait until tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, until graduation or promotion, but do it now, today, as soon as possible and while there is still time.

It is not until you have a lot of money that you repay your parents, because even if you are a millionaire, it is for yourself, but your parents do not live with you all your life to enjoy those things. It doesn’t have to be a big thing to repay your parents, just simply study well, if you are far away, at the weekend or at the end of the month, arrange time to go home to have dinner with your parents, take a Spend some time wandering the internet, taking care of bonsai in the yard with my father, going to the market to choose fish with my mother… In exchange for the bright and sweet smiles of my parents. That is the payback. Just simple and simple things so don’t hesitate, don’t be afraid, don’t let yourself have any regrets later, because time goes by so fast!
There are many people who deny the family, deny the very people who created them just because they were born in a not-so-well family, they think that is unlucky, but they are wrong, compared to those who have just been born. born without seeing his father, not knowing who his mother is, who always asks himself the question “who created me?” but never found the answer. That is the real unhappiness.
No matter what your background is, your father is a director or a worker, how much money your mother makes a month, it’s just that we were created, raised and taught by our parents to be able to sit here and read. these lines have been a blessing, maybe the luck that we have is twice as three times that of a lot of other people out there. So cherish it and don’t waste it.
Nothing is perfect in this world, no one has the right to choose where they are born, so accept your own life, don’t be too greedy for fame and the ephemeral out there to forget one thing. The roof of the house where the parents are getting older every day, don’t wait until you stumble, until you are ruthlessly scratched by life, then you will wake up to find your parents, will it be in time???

We all come to a time when we are old enough to wish we were small again, when life is too tiring, we just want to retreat to a corner, away from the hustle and bustle out there. I just want to crawl into my mother’s lap, rest my head on my father’s strong shoulder, want to curl up in a familiar, familiar roof, with my mother’s voice, warm kitchen smoke. This life is inherently too many scratches, so me, you and us, stay strong with the stormy weather outside, but remember to come home late in the afternoon, just be a child in your father’s arms Mother, in order to find innocent cuddles, let the love of parents heal the wounds that we are accidentally brought by the hustle and bustle out there. Because deep inside each person, family and parents are always the safest place.
So right now, while we haven’t grown up yet, and our parents haven’t aged much, let’s cherish the moments with them by our side because this life with parents is already a privilege!

Written by LE THUY